(audience cheering) (audience clapping) Okay. It’s time for Ask Wendy. Everybody have a seat except for you. Come along. Hi hair. Hi Wendy. How you doing? I’m doing well. How you doing? What’s your name, where are you from? My name is Keesha from Charlotte, North Carolina. And what do you do? I’m Corporate America, finances. Okay, how can I help you, Keesha? How can you help me Wendy? Oh God, I don’t know. (audience laughing) I met this really great guy– Here we go.
Couple years ago. He was intimidated by my success. He was intimidated. Intimidated by my success. He married someone else. Now he’s unhappy in his marriage, and he wants me back. No! So once his divorce is finalized should I take him back? No! Not a take back but you could certainly date and see whether he’s experienced growth. Thank you, Wendy. Just experienced growth. Thank you, Wendy. But don’t take him back as a boyfriend. Okay. You have lots of boyfriends. You know how it is out here in these streets. Yes, yes, Wendy! Yes, I’m 47, so yes. Okay? Date.
Date? See if there’s growth. And if there is, then proceed. But let the divorce be finalized. So don’t date him? No, because he was intimidated by you! Really? You’re bustin’ moves in Corporate America, and he’s bein’ scared? Yes, yes, yes! Get out of here with that! You’re right, you’re right. Thank you, Wendy! You’re welcome, Keesha. (clapping) Okay, come on. How you doing? Good, how are you? My name is Selena, and I have a boyfriend. We’ve been together for one year. Okay. The only issue is that he still keeps in touch with one of his exes. Well, that’s a huge issue. Yes. How do I tell him to stop without me coming off as being jealous? Okay, you’ve been with him for a year? One year. How long was he with her? Well, actually, they’ve been, I think for a year. I’m not too sure, but I’m pretty sure it’s a year. Do they have children together? No. Do you have children with him? No. Do you live with him? No. All right, so after the show, you’re gonna see him face to face and say, “Look, me and Wendy talked,” (audience laughing)
Okay? “and I didn’t know how to talk to you “about this, but this hurts me to the core. “And if it continues, we cannot continue.” Okay. Do you understand what I’m saying? Yes. To me, that’s unfair to you. And it’s also blocking him to get a chance to be with you ’cause he’s still got tethers to this other girl. It’s not her fault. It’s his fault. Okay.
Okay? Thank you. (clapping)
Very welcome, Selena. Oh, we have time! Oh, yes! I love a good juicy Ask Wendy! Come on now. Hi Wendy, my name is Breanna. How you doin’? Hi Breanna. So I’ve been dating this guy for about three months. I really like him, he’s cool. But we’re not official. How old are you? I’m 27. And where you from? I’m from South Jersey. Okay. Yep, so he invited me over for Thanksgiving dinner with his family. Okay. Should I go? Yes! Three is the magic number. You like him enough to meet his family and sit at the dinner table? Yeah. (laughing) Yes, I do, I do! Do you have a family of your own? Yes. So, then you’ll go for your house for dessert or appetizers? Like, how’s this gonna work? We can go to my house for dinner and his house for– It doesn’t matter, either way. You like him enough to co-mingle Thanksgiving. Yup. And I always say three is the magic number. Okay. Are you falling in love? I don’t know. I do really like him though. I just didn’t know if it was too soon to… No, three months, yes. Okay. Enjoy your holidays. No fighting, no pregnancies. No! (laughing) And no marriage, you’re only 27. The three month mark is such a wonderful time in a relationship. Thank you. Congratulations to you! (dance music)